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The Intimacy Project

An interview series, where people are asked to explore a question that is both universal and personal. This project strives to create compassion and understanding, as we see ourselves in the stories of others. The questions are not shared in the entries, as the content they catalyze are the focus of The Intimacy Project. The photos included are selected by the interviewees as images that best represent who they are. If you are interested in adding your own story, please contact me.

"I'm terrified that I won't be able to save the world. Every day I'm confronted by two conflicting realities. The first, that the world is going to shit and there's not much I can do about it. The second, that I want to do something about it.

It leaves me feeling terrified, to the point that sometimes I can't get myself out of the house, can't get myself to work or read or even talk to my friends and family, because I don't want to be confronted by reality. For just a few hours, I want to escape the truth.

This truth – that I, a tiny, insignificant human, am not going to save the world – it doesn't even phase some people. It keeps me awake at night, but it isn't even worth a second's thought for some.

It terrifies me, not only because I am faced with the enormity of the challenges we human beings face and I don't know which one to tackle, but also because I know I could dedicate my whole life to one of those and it might not change anything at all. What am I supposed to do? Is it not worth it? Should I just give up? These questions go through my brain dozens of times a day. And every day, I have to calm myself down. I have to remind myself that it's not just about me. Yes, bad things are happening. Yes, things need to change. Yes, it'll take a long time for me to find my path and contribute to this change. But one step at a time.

I can't save the world. But I may be able to help it."

Vareesha Khan